Thursday, July 16, 2009

Pet Peeve!!!

Don't make plans with your friends on facebook wall! UGH!

Several of my work friends keep making plans to go out or have mommy playdates at the pool. They do this by posting openly on each other's "wall". Is it too sensitive if I feel excluded when 2 people I know, and am friends with, have plans and I see they didn't think to invite me? AND no- they don't know each other better, or for longer, or in other friendship ways...

2 comments:

Jamie said...

I wouldn't read too much into it. Maybe it was a pattern/habit of socializing that they had all along that they literally never considered changing...

Also, you'd be surprised to know how many people don't "get" that the wall-to-walls are publicly available for reading. Maybe they have no idea you can see them, so they would never think to be conscious of your exclusion.

My Husband Calls Me Weird said...

They probably didn't mean to hurt your feelings about it, but I would feel the same way as you did. Just blow it off if you can.

nikki